Ask Your Preacher
I wanted to ask if you are aware that the story of Jesus is not unique. There were mythical Greek gods long before Jesus was heard of with the same or similar story surrounding them (i.e. the virgin birth, miracles, resurrection, etc.).
We are aware of myths that contain elements that are similar to Jesus’ life, but similarity doesn’t mean they are the same, and the biggest difference is that Jesus is a literal person who walked the earth – unlike Hercules or Poseidon.
Jesus is a well-documented historical figure. He is noted by both biblical and secular historians of His day. Jesus isn’t a myth. The fact that people who lived at the same time as Jesus were willing to lay down their lives for their conviction that He had risen from the grave puts Him in a totally different category than mythological tales. All but the most radical historians agree that Jesus really walked this Earth – we can’t fable Him away like Zeus.
What is the seal of God? Is it the seventh day Sabbath as the Seventh Day Adventists say?
Counting To Seven
Dear Counting To Seven,
The seal from God is the Holy Spirit – Eph 1:13 specifically says that. We are sealed and guarded by the Holy Spirit when we do what the Holy Spirit tells us to do. The Holy Spirit speaks to us through the words He had written in the Bible (read “What The Holy Spirit Does?” for more details).
The Sabbath was a holy day for the Jews, not for Christians. The Old Testament has a myriad of laws that are no longer binding in the New Testament: animal sacrifice, clean and unclean foods, and various festivals… just to name a few. 2 Cor 3 is an entire chapter devoted to explaining how the Old Law has been surpassed by the New Law. 2 Cor 3:3 especially clarifies the issue when it states that our law is “not in tables of stone”, a direct reference to the Ten Commandments that were written on stone tablets.
Gal 3:24-25 makes it clear that the Old Law was a tutor to bring mankind to Christ, but now that Christ has come, we are no longer under that tutor. The Sabbath is a part of that Old Law. In the New Testament, christians meet on the first day of the week to worship, take the Lord’s Supper (Acts 20:7), and take up a collection (1 Cor 16:1-2). In short: different covenants, different days.
The Old Testament law given by Moses was a covenant with the Jews (Deut 5:1-5). The New Testament law given in Christ is for all of mankind (Acts 2:38-39).
Who changed the law? God did.
When did it change? When the church began.
I would like to know when I will get married, and will it be with the guy I want to marry?
We are just men here at AYP and not prophets. We can’t tell you the specifics of your life and future. However, we can give you some principles for how to look for a spouse. Read “Set A Date” in our archives for some of the Bible teachings on finding a spouse.
My boyfriend and I started off the wrong way by living together before marriage. We have taken that back a hundred fold, and we no longer live together. However, after a year of living apart, it is extremely hard now! We are struggling very badly right now. He says I am not on the same spiritual level as him… though I am a believer in Jesus and the Word! I am not, however, focused nearly as much as him in the Word. He said he will not be unequally yoked again. Because we argue still about me wanting him to spend more time with me and the kids, I am pulling him away from constantly being in the Word. Am I supposed to forget life because he says there is nothing else to talk about? Is it all about God, and we are only supposed to talk about Him? Am I not supposed to talk about our future as a married couple or what our wedding will entail? Now, because I am not 120% focused on just God, we are unequally yoked. Is that true? Am I wrong because I still desire to live life and talk about baseball and what the kids did at school and everything that life involves? Am I really supposed to be so focused on God I forget all that is around me? And if I am supposed to... how do I? I love God, and I am so grateful for Jesus, and I study and learn more everyday. I am very confused. Are my boyfriend and I unequally yoked to the point that we should not be together any more?
First of all, good for you for making changes in your lives and no longer living together before marriage. You did the right thing, and though it is hard, remember how pleased God is with your choice (Lk 15:7)!
Now let’s deal with the “unequally yoked” issue. The verse that talks about being unequally yoked is 2 Cor 6:14, and it is dealing with a believer being connected to an unbeliever – from what you have said, that is not your situation. A ‘yoke’ is a ‘harness used to tie oxen together, so that they can pull a plow or cart’. When God tells us not to be “unequally yoked” to an unbeliever, He is warning us not to put ourselves in a position where we are committed and tied to someone who doesn’t share our values. The most poignant example of this is marriage. If two oxen are yoked but they are pulling in opposite directions – disastrous things happen.
In your case, you both care about the Lord, but he seems convinced that caring about the Lord means that you neglect all other things. God tells us the opposite. If you two eventually get married, God says that married people must divide their time between caring for the Lord’s work and caring for each other’s needs and future (1 Cor 7:32-34). This is a concept that your boyfriend isn’t grasping. Show him 1 Cor 7:32-34, and then see what He says about “dividing” his time.
What does you do when you have friends that drink and you are not much of a drinker? I don’t want to hurt anyone’s feelings. My husband and I are not big drinkers, just maybe one every so often, but we met some friends while riding bikes, and they do. What do we do?
Trying Not To Wine
Dear Trying Not To Wine,
Pr. 20:1 says, “Wine is a mocker, strong drink a brawler, and whoever is led astray by it is not wise.” Alcohol has caused more problems, deaths, sin, etc. than could ever be fathomed by the mind of man. 1 Cor 15:33 says that we should be very careful with the company we keep because bad company can corrupt good morals. The best thing you can do is make your stand on this issue in a kind way and make it clear that drinking isn’t going to be part of your lifestyle. If these friends are real friends, they will respect your views, and at the least, not do it around you or push you to do it. If they can’t respect that… they probably aren’t real friends.