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“A Courting Crossroad”Categories: DATING/COURTING, MARRIAGE, NEW TESTAMENT, RELATIONSHIPS
What does the Bible mean when it says that it is better for a man to marry than to burn with passion? I got married, and I am still burning with passion. I lust all the time, seems that I can’t help it. I ask God to forgive me every day. Please pray for me.
Dear On Fire,
1 Cor 7:9 is the verse you are referring to, and it is warning that it is better for a man and woman to marry than to burn for one another. We will never be able to remove all lusts or sexual temptations from life, but marriage was designed as a safeguard against those temptations. 1 Cor 7:1-5 states that marriage is a God-designed defense against fornication. Don’t think that by getting married, you miraculously remove all struggles and lusts of the flesh – that isn’t what that verse is dealing with. 1 Cor 7:9 is simply stating that it is better for a man and woman to marry if they find themselves struggling to stay chaste and pure in their courting.