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“Why We Suffer”Categories: DOCTRINE, GOD, RELATIONSHIPS, WITH MANKIND, WORLD EVENTS
I'm going to be up front with you; I am not a Christian. I have no desire to be. My fiancé, on the other hand, is. I am trying to understand how he believes, so we will have a more harmonious union. I asked him this question, and he did not know the answer.
My question is: if the Lord is so wonderful, why would He want to see His children suffer? Why would He take away a life that has not yet even begun? Why would He hurt the innocent when the evil continue to live? I don't understand this.
If you could please explain this in simple terms – the preachers in my area get very upset when someone doubts the Lord’s amazing-ness. Thus, I am turning to you, whoever you are, to give me a straight answer. Thank you so much.
Many people don’t believe in God because religious people are unwilling or incapable of giving logical answers to questions like this. We are so sorry that you’ve never gotten the answers that the Bible offers because the Bible does give an answer to this question.
This world is full of all sorts of disease, pain, violence, and strife – but God didn’t cause those things; sin did. All bad things are a result of sin. When God made the world, He placed mankind in the Garden of Eden and gave us a joyously blissful existence in that paradise. Who caused the pain? We did. It is sin that has brought all of the death, disease, decay, pain, suffering, troubles, and heartaches into our world. We all, in varying degrees, are reaping the benefits of a world with sin in it. Sickness is a consequence of Adam and Eve’s sin in the Garden of Eden. One of the curses of their sin was that we all must face our own mortality – life is finite. Sickness, disease, and pain are a part of the human existence. Sadly, this is true even for our children. When God gave us freewill, He gave us the right to cause problems for ourselves and others, and if He simply removed all the consequences for our actions, He would be removing our freedoms as well. The flip-side to this is that all children go to heaven, so after a child dies, God immediately comforts them on the other side.
God gives mankind the freedom to make decisions, but He also has the wisdom to know how those choices will affect the future (Job 12:13). God planned before the foundation of the world to save us by sending His own Son to die (Eph. 1:3-4). Even though He isn’t responsible for our choices, God sent the perfect cure. This world isn’t fair – if it were, it would be heaven. Instead, we live in a fallen world where man has been exiled from paradise. This world is not our home; Christians await a better world (Heb 11:16).