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“Eternal Heartthrob”

Categories: CHRISTIANS, DATING/COURTING, HEAVEN & HELL, RELATIONSHIPS
I like this boy that is saved, and I have been wondering that if I love him now, will I still be in love with him while I'm in heaven?

Sincerely,
Big Crush

Dear Big Crush,

Romantic love, at least as we know it, will not exist in heaven.  Jesus says that there is no marriage in heaven (Matt 22:30).  Without marriage, there must be some sort of change in the relationships we have.  Love will certainly still exist once we enter the heavenly gates (1 Cor 13:8), but it will be different from what we have here.  Our relationships with others will change because we will change (1 Cor 15:51-52).