Ask Your Preacher
There has been something that I have been really struggling with; I am in a wonderful relationship, and my boyfriend treats me very well. He is very sweet, considerate, and always takes care of me. I have no problems with our relationship, but I have trouble dealing with his past. When he was younger, he walked away from God and made many mistakes, but he has since then changed, come back to God, and put his act together. What I struggle with is he has had multiple partners, and this really bothers me. My question then is: how do I handle the feelings I have about this? Because he is a very godly man now, I just am having a hard time dealing with jealousy and insecurities from knowing he has been with other women.
The New Girl
Dear The New Girl,
Sin can be forgiven, but its consequences still affect us. There is nothing abnormal about being bothered with your boyfriend’s checkered past. God’s design for marriage has always been one man and one woman for a lifetime (1 Cor 7:2). Your boyfriend’s previous choices, which he openly admits were wrong, have defiled and marred the beginnings of your relationship (Heb 13:4). Scripturally, you have no romantic obligation to him one way or the other. You have to decide whether you can honestly let his old baggage go. If you believe him to be a good and trustworthy man now (and it sounds like you do), then move forward knowing that all christians come with baggage (1 Cor 6:11).
I have a question. I was thinking about getting into modeling because my friend is into it, and she is trying to get me to. She wants me to be a ring card girl with her, but my family said that it is a sin to show off my body like that and to be around that kind of environment.
Looking For Career Advice
Dear Looking For Career Advice,
Your family is right. The women that “prance” around boxing rings with the cards that indicate what round of the match it is are only there for one reason – to feed the lust of the flesh (1 Jn 2:16). Dressing immodestly is a sin (1 Tim 2:9). Furthermore, being around people that promote provocative sinful attitudes will corrupt you (1 Cor 15:33). We are affected by those we are around, and our friendships and work environment either build us up or tear us down. Listen to your family; they have your best interests in mind.
Why are there fake christian people who say they are christians and do bad stuff? They think all they have to do is to believe in God, and then they do want they want.
Tired Of The Charade
Dear Tired Of The Charade,
There have been, and always will be, people who are hypocritical in their faith (Matt 6:2). Make note of that behavior and remember to never be that way yourself. We can’t do anything about others, but we can examine ourselves (2 Cor 13:5) and make sure that we are faithful. Christianity is about more than just believing in God… even the demons believe (Jas 2:19). Real christians combine their belief with works (Jas 2:17-18). God wants more than just lip service… not everyone who calls on His name will be saved (Matt 7:21-23). Don’t just look like a christian; live like one (Matt 23:25-26).
5 minutes a day
5 days a week
1 New Testament in a year
There are 261 weekdays in a year, and there are 260 chapters in the New Testament. By reading one chapter, Monday through Friday, you will read the whole New Testament by the end of the year. The Daily Cup series is to help with that goal.
"The LORD is my chosen portion and my cup." -- Psalm 16:5
Click here for a pdf of the study schedule - CLICK HERE
Leviticus 3:17, along with other similar passages, forbids believers to eat any blood. The Jehovah's Witnesses don't accept blood transfusions and won't eat meat with blood in it for this reason. My question is: how can you eat blood if blood is liquid… isn't it? And also, someone said in order to eat something, you have to digest it. You don't digest blood transfusions, right? So what exactly does Leviticus 3:17 mean?
Dear Blood Donor,
It is possible to eat blood if it is prepared as a dish (i.e. blood sausage, blood pie, etc.); however, it would be wrong to do so (see "Blood In The Pudding" for New Testament teachings on that subject). This verse, however, doesn't address why Jehovah's Witnesses don't accept blood transfusions. The reason JW's don't get blood transfusions is because "the life is in the blood" (Deu 12:23). They improperly apply an Old Testament teaching that dealt with eating to a medical treatment in the world of the New Testament. Christians are not under the Old Testament law (Gal 3:23-25). The Old Testament still provides many faithful examples and principles, but its specific laws have been nailed to the cross (Col 2:14). The Old Testament law has faded away and been replaced by the perfect law of liberty in Christ (Jas 1:25). Read "Out With The Old?" for further details on the place of the Old Testament in the life of a christian.