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Any advice on dating a Baptist preacher? He’s a widower, and I’m a divorcee.
Though all things are possible through Christ, someone who has dedicated their life to a religious denomination that follows tradition over truth would have a difficult road to conversion, and it is well worth talking about the differences up front. We recommend you read our post, “Baptist Bewilderment”, and have a discussion with him about the various Baptist teachings that don’t match Scripture before you press forward with your relationship. You never know; maybe, just maybe, he has never considered these problems before. With an honest heart, anyone can come to Christ.
I am worried that my wife is getting burnt out. We have always tried to involve ourselves in doing good work such as visiting the sick, helping the elderly, cleaning the church building, helping people get to worship who can't drive, etc. It makes me feel good to do these things. We have something going on just about every night after we get off work. My wife said she feels overwhelmed. My question is: as her husband, is it biblically wrong in any way if I tell her she could slow down? We are members of the Lord’s church, and just like any congregation, few people are willing to do work. It makes me happy to help, and I believe it makes the Lord happy. I just don't want my wife to get burnt out. Any suggestions or Scripture that may help?
Dear Concerned Husband,
There is a time and season for everything. Burn out is a real issue, and Solomon said that there is a time for everything – that would include a time to rest (Eccl 3:1-8). It is good that you are workers in the church, and you shouldn’t stop working, but it may be time to pace yourselves. After all, Christianity is an endurance race, not a sprint (Lk 21:19). There is a season for everything, and your wife’s health and well-being must be factored in as you decide what level of work your family can handle.