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“Home-Wrecker”Categories: MARRIAGE, RELATIONSHIPS
I have a wife who is faithful to me. She does not know about my secret relationship. I also have a girlfriend who loves me, and I love her (she knows my situation). She cannot keep going on like this in a part-time relationship. Frankly, neither can I. I have to make a decision to be with one or the other. We (girlfriend and I) want to live right before God. Can I leave my faithful wife, choose my girlfriend, and still live right before the Lord? What would we gain? What would we lose? What must we do to make it right before God?
Got To Choose
Dear Got To Choose,
No, unequivocally no! You cannot leave your wife to start a new life with your girlfriend. Marriage was designed by God to be monogamous, and the marriage bed should be undefiled (Gen 2:24, Heb 13:4). What you are doing is wrong. You are fornicating, defiling your marriage, and destroying this other woman’s life as well.
The only faithful way out of this sin is to break off your relationship with your mistress, flee fornication (1 Cor 6:18), and start being faithful to your already faithful wife.